When we are talking about the matter of "picking up women." I often be asked what to do to be able to "pick up women", or simply "how to pick up women".

I recently got asked the question: "Why do girls flirt with you and when you flirt back they push it away? It's so misleading!!!" I thought it was interesting and valuable enough to share.

First, women have different qualities. What is being pointed out here is a type of personality, not all women in general. The personality type that usually does this kind of behavior is a little shaky. They are testing the water, but they don't really want to leap in.

The best way to manage this personality type is when you find it is not to respond, not to take the bait so to speak. Let the girl flirt all she wants, let her take the lead. Let her control how the relationship goes. If you don't react, she will feel at ease with you and steepen the gradient over time. If you react (flirt back) she will in most cases run off.

Difficulty is, however, people with the same or compatible personalities tend to hang out together. So sometimes you can get the impression that the whole world is one way, when in fact it may be just a certain percentage of people who are like that. So if you generally think ALL women are one way, modify your environment. Go to some other place, meet different people in different circumstances and perhaps you will discover different personality types and perhaps one that is more compatible with you.

Now having said that, let's look at it from a different perspective. Women in general like flirting for flirting's sake more than guys do. Men will flirt just because they are interested in a woman. Girls will flirt to see if they get an acceptance, to see if they are looking good and are desirable, even when they are not interested in a man. They will flirt with a guy they are only keen on being friends with.

One way to get better grip of these conditions is to observe all the communication modes that a woman is using to communicate - Like verbal, emotional, physical, mental, and sexual communications.

When a woman likes you she probably will communicate that she likes you across all of the communications means. When she is only playing around she will give you mixed communications. So when you realize a woman flirting with you, but she does not back up the flirting by showing you she likes you across ALL the communication channels - don't take the flirtation seriously.

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