You were a challenge for her. You had a very high significance and she had been irresistibly attracted to you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"

I am preparing to make a wild guess here, but can it be that as time went on, you have become less and less of a challenge for her? And could it be that now, you're absolutely no challenge for her? And that she believes if she wanted to, at any moment she could get you back again and twisted around her little finger just by saying the word?

Now I'm going to be a bit crude here, however as you know, to develop into a challenge once more you need to prove to your ex-girlfriend that her sexuality has no influence over you any more. Take into account what it's like when you're stalking her with not returned telephone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. And after that think about just what it is like when you keep doing it (as quite a few guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You will be suggesting to the woman that you're a low-value guy without any other dating options.

Your lady is not going to respect you again until you refuse her lovemaking dominance over you. Luckily you're doing that now by not specifically corresponding with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.

Be sure you stay 100% rigid with your communication cut-off. You should not be "friends" with her, simply because that rewards your ex with the ongoing validation of power over you while providing her a comfortable excuse to stay separated. (Your ex reasons that she is letting you down easy doing this, assuaging virtually any guilt she may experience.)

Then again, make sure to keep her locked in with the help of your things. Probably quite a few your belongings are at her residence, and vice versa. She may even owe you money as well. She might ask a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you want everything returned.

The very best reply to this is simply "No, not yet. The rationale is because her possessing your things (and you holding onto hers) is still locking the two of you in and guaranteeing future communication. You do NOT want to give her the psychological closure that would be caused by settling your accounts.

For the up coming three weeks, you need to completely recognize -- and embrace -- the fact that you are an independent person now. Take what occurred with your ex and learn from it. You have a great opportunity to transform your life which will finally allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.

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