Fine, we have all watched that myth - that "nice guys" lose out and the 'bad boys" appeal to women - but I don't think it is necessarily true.

At least I don't believe it has anything to do with being a bad boy versus a nice guy.

I think there are other personality vectors involved that maybe bad boys and nice guys have that are the identifying qualities of attraction.

Bad boys tend to be less shy, but in addition they are more confident in general than nice guys. I think that it would be these personalities that are attracting a woman not the fact that a guy is bad.

I personally do not use the "bad boy" approach when attracting women, I am most always a perfect gentleman. Nevertheless, I am not an easy catch and women can tell that quickly when talking to me. I am a little aloof, I don't compliment women when I initially meet them or tell them how beautiful they are, and most women don't have a hint as to whether I am interested in them or just being nice.

That is what sets me away from a "nice guy". Women see me as a rightful gentleman but haven't a clue if I like them or not. Women -especially very attractive women - enjoy that. They are sick and tired of meeting men who praise them.

Girls like guys who are interesting and unique. Attractive girls don't find gents who tell them how beautiful they are to be unique. But a guy who has a pleasant conversation with them without saying a word about their good looks verbally or non-verbally - now that is both interesting and unique to a beautiful girl.

Also do not forget that women have different personalities. And what one thinks is interesting and unique differs from personality to personality. A not-so-good-looking woman may find it totally interesting and unique to be told how attractive she is by a man. A woman who grows up in a society of perfect gentlemen, might very well find a guy who talks a little awful and naughty to be interesting and different. A woman who knows nothing but crude and ignorant men, would find a gentlemen to be an unusual interesting and unique find.

You see no matter what you are like there is a person for you. But you have to define who that someone would be and then try to build up a scenario on how you would meet people like that. So no matter if you are a bad guy or a nice guy, put yourself in a situation where you are interesting and unique to the women you come across and you will be successful.

One of the most difficult things to learn in life is that no matter what you are like there is definitely someone who is perfectly compatible with you. Even if you are boring there are women who are absolutely compatible with that. Not every one desires to meet and hook up with the life of the party.

The problem is people who don't acknowledge themselves for who they are, try to act differently and they are not being themselves, so they don't attract anyone. Now if you just admit yourself for who you are and act the way you really are, you will find that there are people who will choose you for who you are. So don't worry about whether you are dull or not, just be yourself. Sooner or later you will find a girl who will accept you for who you are.

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